In the days of our forefathers, days
that the white man has duly assigned a word-primitiveness- women walked
bare-chested and it was not something that Mutua (the film guy) would yap about
in connection to morals. With all due respect, morality is now defined by western
concepts and religion, and is passed down as African. Yes, because we’ve become
too westernized. The white saw our nudity and determined that it was gross,
gave us clothes and proceeded thereafter to found a million dollar porn
industry.
We, the almost morally bankrupt millennials,
marvel at this technology called the internet. I mean if you type certain words
on your search engine, you are likely to stumble upon a million photos of naked
women, in all their varieties. Well, some of us actively seek these photos day
in day out, as we wait for our bets to ‘enter’ or ‘drink water.’ If you think
deeply, it’s quite the easiest thing to do knowing that we do not have people
who can walk into a ministry and withdraw ten billion shillings and walk away
scot free. Almost always, these pictures seek us out too. It sometimes form the
headlines in the local tabloids, or sometimes when you are taking a brisk walk
down the anonymous and dark alleys of social media, bulky men accost you with
the following headlines: LEAKED NUDES OF [insert the name your crush].
Perhaps you should begin thinking
less lowly of nudity and stuff, because it has been proven to one of the
qualifications to a ministerial position. Also, nudity and all that appertains
to it is present in nature, just as espoused by that sculpture at JKIA. The
animals are not ashamed of this act that human beings have associated with
every diabolic thing possible. But then there are dogs that apparently are clueless
about the act, so much that men, with all their brain cells functioning
properly, decided to help them mate. It was gross to say the least; two grown
men holding dogs, one the gonads of the male, and the other the ears of the
bitch. This was a video conducting a guard of honour on twitter, whereby people
expressed their insights, because it is a crime not to. One that caught my eye
was ‘AND THE AWARD TO THE ULTIMATE WING MAN GOES TO…’ I presume he was the one
holding the bitch.
Speaking of wing men, man (not the
biblical man) has always been set on conquests and winning. In the ancient
days, it was about masculine things such as hunting with crude weapons and
going to steal cattle. The only manly thing left in this technological world, is
actively soliciting nudes from ladies as well as banging them. It is the reason
why men go to bars in the first place; to lose inhibitions and talk about their
conquests in the same level Alexander the Great would have bragged. And then
hitting on random ladies. It’s here that the wing man sometimes chips in. You never
know what these ladies can do to you. Man, you could be slowly siphoning your
favourite poison and all of a sudden the world gets dark, and you wake after
William Ruto has been severely humiliated by the aristocrats in the year 2022. Masaibu ya boychild!!
The bar setting has ceased being
the hunting ground for men. The only thing a man needs to do is wear a crisp
suit and tie, look suave and stand at the matatu stage, waiting for fare to
drop before he heads to his humble domiciliary. A lady will saunter around that
gentleman, flaunting her credentials, once or twice before she realizes that
the man is too engrossed in his phone to notice she is overqualified. She
strikes up a conversation with him, where she decides that she’s also heading
to the same direction as him. Because the gentleman does not want any more
complications in his life, he does not even ask for the ladies number, which
she notices and promptly volunteers. She’s called Beryl. The gentleman saves Beryl
Beauty on his phone.
A day later Beryl claims that
she’s been chased out by her brother for getting home late. She’s asking for a
place to stay the night as she gathers herself. The gentleman, just like you
and me, only has the house to sleep in, of course and pay rent. He recently
moved, his living room is emptier than the hearts of politicians. Beryl coaxes
the man until she gives up. Later, she
shows up in the middle of the night, not without a fracas with the boda boda
guys. Typical Jang’o ladies. Here’s where the wingman steps in. knowing too
well that it’s stupid to die for ladies who show up late in the night, reeking
of cheap liquor, the wingman advises him to stay away from the fracas, as far
as Timbuktu.
Being a prospective man does not
make one ‘the man’. As a lady, you will deal with your squabbles before a man
becomes the man. But then again nothing diminishes a man more than a lady who
constantly picks up fights over extremely trivial things and expects a man to
‘sort’ the guys out. It always a losing situation especially in a public place
where there are idle people itching to lay their frustrations on an innocent
soul. Beryl may have learnt the hard way, escaping with only minor injuries in
her internal organs.
Once the fracas has died down,
the gentleman and his wingman escort Beryl to the domiciliary. There she is
condemned to the coach. She sleeps like a piece of rotting log, waking up at
noon. Upon waking up, she brazenly asks if there’s something to eat, and the
wingman says no. the gentleman left strict instructions to the wingman before
he left for work. He tiptoed out leaving her soaking in her drunken drool. He then switches off his phone and the wingman
is left all alone with a stranger in the house. His only job is to make her
step of the house and then lock it. But
that’s not how Jan’go ladies operate. They came with a completely different
operating manual, with some crucial pages missing. She obstinately refuses to
leave, hurling curses that one feels straight in the bone, even though it is a language
one barely understands.
When she asks for the tissue, the
wingman knows that shit is about to go down. She enters the toilet, which also
doubles up as the bathroom and the wing man promptly locks the door and calls the
police who in the service to all, do not show up.